Rest in peace, Thomas Joseph Whalen aka ""Tommy Pastrami"", Jr., 55, died instantly in a fall at his home in Denver, Colorado on November 26, 2012. Tommy lived in Solana Beach, California from 1967-1978, and graduated from San Dieguito High School. He was a member of the St. James Catholic Church in Solana Beach, California. He is preceded in death by his parents Thomas J. and Mary Adelaide Whalen and his sister Mary Elizabeth Whalen Baird. He is survived by his wife Sarah and his sons Ian and Tom, who currently reside in Denver, Colorado. Tommy is also survived by his oldest brother Michael Whalen and oldest sister Anne Davey Whalen, formally Hamilton. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews. A Memorial Service will be held on Sunday December 9, 2012 at 2:00 PM at the Horan & McConaty Family Chapel, 3101 South Wadsworth Boulevard, Lakewood, Colorado 80227. Please share your memories of Thomas and condolences with his family by signing the guestbook below.